Showing posts with label gratefulness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gratefulness. Show all posts

Friday, September 16, 2011

3 Elements of Personal Prayer

*updates might be a bit infrequent, as I've returned to school again*


Over summer I started reading some Quran, and I realized that there are 3 things we need to be doing on a regular basis


1) Being grateful to Allah (SWT)
2) Praising Allah (SWT)
3) Seeking forgiveness from Allah (SWT)


Being grateful


In the Mohsin Khan translation of the Quran, the word "grateful" appears 22 times. Yeah I know some of those times are in explanations (Mohsin likes his parenthetical explanations) but still, it started to stand out:


O you who believe (in the Oneness of Allah - Islamic Monotheism)! Eat of the lawful things that We have provided you with, and be grateful to Allah, if it is indeed He Whom you worship. (2:172)


....Allah intends for you ease, and He does not want to make things difficult for you. (He wants that you) must complete the same number (of days), and that you must magnify Allah [i.e. to say Takbir (Allahu Akbar; Allah is the Most Great] for having guided you so that you may be grateful to Him. (2:185)




Muhammad (صلى الله عليه وسلم) is no more than a Messenger, and indeed (many) Messengers have passed away before him. If he dies or is killed, will you then turn back on your heels (as disbelievers)? And he who turns back on his heels, not the least harm will he do to Allah; and Allah will give reward to those who are grateful. (3:144)


And on and on. So one ought to pepper their days with "Alhumdlillah's", over little things like the light turning green, or not so little things like not tripping over your socks and plunging headfirst down the stairs and into Azrael's open arms. 


2) Praising Allah (SWT)


Now a quick search of "praise" in the Quran doesn't turn up many ayat telling us to praise Allah, but we do get a bunch of Ayat reminding us how Allah (SWT) is "worthy of all praise". This also falls under the "keep a remembering tongue" category of stuff we ought to be doing. Personally, I find this one a little tricky. I can't toss out a "subhanAllah" at a magnificent sunset or upon reading about how bees can boil a hornet when defending their hive. It's not that I'm proud, it's just that when I say it, I feel like I'm saying it just to show off...it feels very unnatural. So, I do it the good old fashioned robotic way, with TECHNOLOGY! :D I whip out my iPhone and iSubha app and go to town after my prayers. 


3) Seeking forgivness


Of all the 3, this is probably the one we should be doing the most. Getting rewards is fine and dandy, but we're just hindering ourselves by not asking forgiveness. We could think of asking forgiveness like earning reward in that we're no longer using our good deeds to nullify bad ones since the bad ones are being taken out entirely. The key element in seeking forgiveness however, is regret. We need to truly regret what we did and not want to do it again. We might do it again, but that's okay sinccne and it gets hard to ask for forgiveness when sometimes we can pretty much bet the farm we'll do it again, still, we live in hope. 


I found this on a forum (http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?258973-When-does-Allah-stop-forgiving-a-person-who-keeps-repeating-the-same-sin)


Al-Bukhaari (7507) and Muslim (2758) narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said that his Lord said: “My slave commits sin, then he says, ‘O Allaah, forgive me my sin.’ Then Allaah says, ‘My slave has committed a sin, but he knows that he has a Lord Who forgives sin and takes away sin. So I forgive My slave.’ Then he commits sin again, and says, ‘O Allaah, forgive me my sin.’ Then Allaah says, ‘My slave has committed a sin, but he knows that he has a Lord Who forgives sin and takes away sin. So I forgive My slave.’ Then he commits sin again, and says, ‘O Allaah, forgive me my sin.’ Then Allaah says, ‘My slave has committed a sin, but he knows that he has a Lord Who forgives sin and takes away sin. So I forgive My slave.’ …”


Which is reassuring (but not an excuse to keep sinning, mind you)


In summary though, these 3 practices are just ways of making sure we have all our bases covered. 

Monday, August 17, 2009

What I Learned about Gratefulness

I'm reading this book, "The Revival of Religious Sciences" by one Imam Ghazalli, and I'm at the section regarding gratefulness. Now gratefulness (towards God), I always thought, meant to be thankful for what He has sent/given/saved me from/etc. As I read though, it turns out this is not entirely true. According to the Imam (with some Hadith's for support), proper gratefulness encompasses a few different things.

The first and most basic form of gratefulness is the knowledge that everything comes from God. The Imam sites a hadith that said:

One day, the Prophet Moses said in his invocation: O God, you have created Adam. How has he expressed gratefulness to you? God said: He knew that everything came from Me.

Throughout the book, the Imam says a lot of things about achieving (essentially) enlightenment, and while it still kind of baffles me, I think I'm starting to understand. Part of achieving this "enlightenment" is being able to, without stopping to think about it, immediately recognize that everything comes from God. Now, before you say "Well, duh." let me give you a simple example.

Someone gives you a present, what's the first thing that comes to mind? Probably "SWEET! This person's giving me a present!" Followed shortly after by "Thanks!" then, if you aren't too wrapped up in your present, a "Thanks God!"

From what I understand, it should be more like "SWEET! God sent this person to give me a present! Thanks God!" in the split second before saying "Thanks!" to the person.

There was a short story in here that said a woman while walking, tripped and fell. The first thing she said was "All praise and thanks are for God". The narrator asked her why she exclaimed that, to which she responded that by tripping and falling, God might forgive some of her sins. Being able to do that on cue is probably one of those steps to "enlightenment".

The next thing a person must do, from what I read, is use gifts for their intended purposes and for purposes that bring one closer to God, and not to neglect gifts. Remember that "gift" pretty much refers to anything; an iPhone, your arms or legs, a donors kidney, the flu, and so on. This is pretty much straightforward. If you gave a little race car toy to your younger brother, or a barbie to your little sister, and you found them using the race car as a door stop, or putting the barbie in the microwave, wouldn't you be a little bit ticked? Probably throw around terms like, ungrateful and brat? Yeah, I would too. So wouldn't it make sense that if we misuse our arms, legs, kidneys, or technology that God has gifted us with, He might feel that we're ungrateful for them?

So gratefulness:
To acknowledge in mind and body that all things are from God.